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About this tool
This tool welcomes all forms of connection — whether platonic, familial, professional or romantic. It's designed to bring clarity to how we define our unique relationships.
Think of relationships as customizable recipes — you and others select ingredients from the menu that appeal to your tastes and preferences. The resulting "dish" becomes your relationship.
Key principles:
- Conscious co-creation — Openly discussing desires and boundaries prevents misunderstandings and disappointment
- Flexibility over time — Your relationship "plate" can evolve as you and your connections change
- Regular check-ins — Revisit your menu periodically to reflect changing needs and desires
You like this tool? Send me an e-mail — as no tracking is used and your data is stored in your browser, I have no way of knowing if anyone is actually using it!
Getting Started
- Create a new menu from a template or upload your existing one
- Review the options and discuss with your relationship partner(s)
- Customize and reflect your shared agreements
- Download or share your personalized menu
Privacy Information
100% Private:All your relationship menu data stays locally in your browser until you explicitly share it with someone as a PDF or JSON file.
Local Storage:Your relationship menu is automatically saved in your browser's local storage, so you can safely reload the page or return later without losing any data.
This version of the Non-Escalator Relationship Menu was created by Paul-Vincent Roll.
Based on theRelationship Anarchy Smörgåsbord (Version 6)and theNon-Escalator Relationship Menu (Version 3)